Do all men really cheat ?

First of all I just hope we don't end up like the ladies in the second picture in the comments section. We are all entitled to our own opinions biko! This topic has been something that has been brought up quite a lot in numerous discussions I have had, and I don't know why I am just now addressing it on my blog. Although I feel this is a very subjective topic. I'd still like to know what you guys think. 

Personally, I do feel that all men cheat. Please don't come for me me, let me explain. Your man may love you more than anything in the world but that doesn't stop him from thinking other women besides you are attractive. Now it also depends on what cheating means to you. To me cheating is when a guy becomes romantically involved with another woman that is not his significant other. Yes, even thinking about another woman is considered cheating to me.

At some point in your relationship, I do feel like your man will cross the line, intentionally or not. He will start to feel something for another woman. Now! depending on how strong the hold of this Jezebel is, he may even go as far as sleeping with her. Lets face it women these days are for some odd reason more attracted to guys that are in some sort of relationship. As in it's like when they see a ring on a man's finger their thirst level goes up by 1000%, and these men can't help it. Even if they can, that eggplant between their legs won't let them.

If this has happened to you or happens to you in the future. I do feel like you should be able to forgive your man (of course depending on how far he has gone with this Delilah) if you really love him. I have in the past broken up my relationship because of this reason, but looking back now that I am older, I do feel like maybe I should have tried to work things out if I truly loved the person. 

Oya over to you guys...what do ya'll think? Do you think all men cheat? Or are you one of those girls that think "if my man truly loves me he won't cheat on me". Will you forgive him if he goes out of line or will you chuck the deuces up? 

Comment below I'd love to know your thoughts.


  1. nice post, you asked for observations. I already :) Now I'm waiting for you

  2. Hmm, that's an interesting topic to discuss about. There's a proverb which says "Not all fingers on a human's hand are the same" & because of that; not every man is the same. Personally, I don't think all men cheat due to facts that there're certain things that causes a man to cheat on his personal person (lady). If a man finds those things in his lady, then there's absolutely no need 4 him to cheat.
    In addition, man faces challenges & temptations from ladies but a man who has played it all & found his match maker would absolutely see no need to cheat; cuz he's already felt, tasted & enjoyed it.

  3. This is a good one. My best friend and I had a conversation months ago. We came up with 80% 10% 10%... 80% of PEOPLE (not just men) will cheat. They have no regard, no respect, they don't care. 10% are not cheaters but if put in a compromising situation it could happen. And then 10% of people who just are 100% faithful.

    I don't feel that my man looking at another woman or even having a fantasy is considered cheating. Hell, I look at other people myself, but not in a manner I would want to cheat and/or have sex and/or start another relationship. At the end of the day I know who the home team is and if we have a strong connection I wouldn't be concerned about it, vice versa.

    So to answer your question. No... I don't think all men cheat. Now, it's a matter of finding that 10%... it's like a needle in a haystack.


  4. What is that about? This hits home because every relationship I've been in has ended due to cheating. For a while, I started to think it was ME. I thought maybe... idk. Crazy thoughts. So, if this is true, I feel a bit relieved, but also sad. I don't know why it's so hard for people to communicate. & I think a lot of people rush into relationships for all the wrong reasons, esp. loneliness. I feel as if the love is true, & the commitment strong, the bond should be uninterrupted & unbreakable. But, is that merely a fantasy these days? I wouldn't even say this only applies to men either. I have friends with bf/gfs that seem honest, & they cheat on them weekends we go out. & I'm just like... what are you doing & why?

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  5. This is a very Interesting topic that needs deliberation. From the viewpoint of being a man I don't think every man cheats however I do think that majority of them unfortunately do. What a shame. I am proud to be among the few that refuses to cheat. Like you stated cheating means different things to different people and is quite subjective which makes it a bit difficult to justify. I also do think that everyone is tempted both men and women but its the strong ones and loyal ones that are able to diffuse tempting situations and environments that ultimately may lead to cheating. In my opinion both men and women are vulnerable to cheating and being cheated on. I think men tend to be more open about their cheating so it may seem as they they cheat more while women tend to be more deceptive and sneaky about it and can be just as guilty as men

  6. I don't think all men cheat, or at least I hope not

    1. Thanks for commenting're entitled to your own opinion boo